Sas ka zulam

[Sana Zafar]

Meri sas meri real khala hy , wo mujh sy bht pyar krti thin . Achanak sy jaisy hi shafi huwi bilkul badal gyin, sary ghr ka kam krwati , meri 3 nanden hen , kbhi unhon ny mery shohar ko mera ni hony dya. Shadi k phly din sy wo rat 12 bjy mery kamry me atay, din me kbhi hame sath bethny ni dyty , kbhi sath bahir jany ni dyty , jo sas kahy ghr me wohi hota , shohar sub janty hen lekin maa ghalat b ho to chup rehty kehty bs sabar karo , shohar ko hr waqt mery khilaf krti hen , koi bat ho jaye hr bat m shohar ko khti hen k tum apni bv py gusa ku ni krty ho ,Allah ny mujhy beta dya mujhy lga sub thek ho jaye ga lekin meri sas har waqt mera bacha apny pas rakhti hen , sas chore to nande apny pas rakh leti , mery kamry me any ni deti meri olad, jhoot bol k mera feed churwa rahin ta k doodh peeny b mery pas na aye, jaisy gi me apny bety pas jati mujhy kam btany lg jati hun , bety ki doori bardasht ni ho rahi , maa bap sy milny ni deti , ma bap k ghar jany ni deti , plz meri rehnumai kren me kiya krun, meri olad mujh sy door na ho. 

 

[Kilk-e-Raza]

behn apka masla taqreban her ghar ka masla hay. apko kuch sabr kerna hoga or kuch koshish. isi terha ke aik topic men aik jawab post kya tha. ap yeh try keren. or sath dua zaror keren. dua momin ka hathyaar hai.

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Islam men shohar or biwi dono ke huqooq hain.. Biwi kin muamlat per sabr kerey gi or kiya maney gi, kiya nhi mane gi. In sab per islam men ahkamat mojod hain. Sirf thori si mehnat ki zarorat hay ye ilm hasil kerne ke lye. Or ager aap ye ilm hasil kr len or jahan apko huqooq ki talafi nazer aaye tu pyar or narmi ke sath apne shohar ko batain ya unko woh kitab perhne ko de dein ya bayan sunwa den tu umeed hay ke bohot faida hoga.

 

Chand links main yahan pr post kr raha hoon. Umeed hay in se aapko madad miley gi. Sab se pehle jo bayan hay. Yeh saas baho ke relationship pr hay or ghar ko kese acha banaya jaye. Ager aap ye bayan apne ghar walon ko kisi terha sunwa den (munasib hay ke pehle shohar ko phir unke zareye deger ko) tu umeed hay unka riwaya apke sath bohot behter ho jaye ga.

 

Ghar aman ka gehwara kaise bane? by Ameer-e-Ahlesunnat

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QaDdL7Tcf4

 

Madani Mukalma - Huqooq e Zojain - Rights of Spouse in Islam

 

Part-1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4f51f9LX67w

Part-2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz55USpy8Do

 

Part-3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlRQwex2aWA

 

Part-4: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLDA6e6gsKc

 

Part-5: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnIgAU62gIA

 

Part-6: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oUXCFqOi3P4

 

Part-7: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yttJVutHyhw

 

Part-8: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMlXrccwJz8

 

Part-9: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5RuyhDHtsw

Shohar / Mard Ko Kaisa Hona Chahiye by Moulana Haji Muhammad Imran Attari

 

 

Biwi Ko Kesa Hona Chahiye? by Moulana Haji Muhammad Imran Attari

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orzjf-6c0Lc

 

 

 

http://www.dawateislami.net/books/bookslibrary.do#!section:bookDetail_159.ur

Download: http://data2.dawateislami.net/Data/Books/Download/ur/pdf/2006/159-1.pdf

Beewi k huqooq

http://www.islamimehfil.com/topic/1874-beewi-k-huqooq/

Shoher kay huqooq

http://www.islamimehfil.com/topic/1859-shoher-kay-huqooq/

Madani Muazkra

 Shouhar Ko Aurat Kay Liay Hukam.rm

 

 

 

 

[Sana Zafar]

 

In sub maslo k sath sath mera meri olad ka masla b hy, mery susral waly mera bacha cheenty mujh sy, dada dadi har waqt har apny pas rakhty, apny beech sulaty , mujhy bs feed k lye dyty , kiya mera bacha mujhy ni pehchany ga jab wo bara ho ga? 

Me kiya krun meri rehnumai kren wo abhi bs aik maah ka hy, 

[Zarina Farrukh]

Assalam o Alaikum.

Islam nai saas kay bary mai usay Maa sai tashbih di hai. Aur saas k bary mai Darguzar karnay ka Hukam Dya hai . kay koshish ki jae k zayada sai zayada darguzar kya jae. Hadees Pak mai hai k.

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Jo Allah ki Raza k lye apnay Dil ko Naram kar leta hai Allah us k lye naram ho jata hai.

So hame Allah ki Raza k lye apnay Dil naram kar lenay cahiyai. Do Respect her even she is strict May God Help us to Learn Quran and Understand it?. Aur Jawab mai maa sai tashbih issi lye di gae k Darguzar aur Naram Salook kya jae.

Jazak Allah Kher.

Edited 26 ستمبر 2018 by Zarina Farrukh
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