Kya Sab Kuch Bardash Karna Biwi Py He Farz Hai...?

[hunny]

Meri shadi ko 4 saal guzar gae hain. Pehla saal to bohat acha guzra saas ko maa or nandoun ko behan samjha phr ahista ahista saas ka asal chehra nazar aya or nandoun ki takleef nazar ai to phr b jtna hosaka bardash kia. Par ab bardash nahi hota main kya karun...

 

Please meray sawaloun ka jawab dain shayad meri zindagi bach jae.

 

1. Aik biwi ktna bardash karay... biwi ki bardash ki akhri hud kya hai...??

 

2. Susralioun ki khidmat farz na hotay huy b un k sth husan e salooq sy paish ao ye hukam ha islam main biwi kitna husan w salooq karay...??

 

3 bahu jab maiqay gai ho aur saas pechay say ghar ka rashan ly aw k bahu daikh ly itna sara saman to nazar lg jae gi or badam pista kishmish elaichi jaisi cheezen lock main rkh ly to bahu kya karay.. ??

 

4 shohar say shikayat karay biwi or shohar apni behanoun sy baat karay k ami ko smjhaen to bahenen agay sat ye pati parha dain k tm sari zindagi apni maa k sth rahay ho or hamen janty ho or ab apni biwi ki baat maan rahay ho tm apni biwi ko kaho k jaisa meri maa kehti ha waisa karo to ap log btaen biwi kya karat...??

 

4. Shohar say agar biwi farmaish karay k aj maiqay ly jawn ya kahin ghumanay ly jaen ti shohar kahay k meri maa sy pucho. Meri meri maa meray baap ko btae gi k in logoun ny bahar jana hai. Or agar mera baap kahay ga k haan jao tm log chaly jao to phr main tmhay ly jaoun ga... biwi kya karay... biwi kis ko roye apni kismat ko ya apni bebasi ko.

 

5. Shohar agar manay k haan meri maa galat krti hai phr b main unko kuch nahi kahun ga tmko he kahun ga k tm he galat ho to biwi kya karay...

 

Please mjhy jawab dain meri madad karen main kya karun... main kis ko kahun...???

[Kilk-e-Raza]

Islam men shohar or biwi dono ke huqooq hain.. Biwi kin muamlat per sabr kerey gi or kiya maney gi, kiya nhi mane gi. In sab per islam men ahkamat mojod hain. Sirf thori si mehnat ki zarorat hay ye ilm hasil kerne ke lye. Or ager aap ye ilm hasil kr len or jahan apko huqooq ki talafi nazer aaye tu pyar or narmi ke sath apne shohar ko batain ya unko woh kitab perhne ko de dein ya bayan sunwa den tu umeed hay ke bohot faida hoga.

Chand links main yahan pr post kr raha hoon. Umeed hay in se aapko madad miley gi. Sab se pehle jo bayan hay. Yeh saas baho ke relationship pr hay or ghar ko kese acha banaya jaye. Ager aap ye bayan apne ghar walon ko kisi terha sunwa den (munasib hay ke pehle shohar ko phir unke zareye deger ko) tu umeed hay unka riwaya apke sath bohot behter ho jaye ga.

Ghar aman ka gehwara kaise bane? by Ameer-e-Ahlesunnat

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QaDdL7Tcf4

Madani Mukalma - Huqooq e Zojain - Rights of Spouse in Islam

Part-1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4f51f9LX67w

Part-2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz55USpy8Do

Part-3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlRQwex2aWA

Part-4: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLDA6e6gsKc

Part-5: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnIgAU62gIA

Part-6: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oUXCFqOi3P4

Part-7: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yttJVutHyhw

Part-8: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMlXrccwJz8

Part-9: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5RuyhDHtsw

Shohar / Mard Ko Kaisa Hona Chahiye by Moulana Haji Muhammad Imran Attari

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSDB45lPKA4

Biwi Ko Kesa Hona Chahiye? by Moulana Haji Muhammad Imran Attari

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orzjf-6c0Lc

 

http://www.dawateislami.net/books/bookslibrary.do#!section:bookDetail_159.ur

Download: http://data2.dawateislami.net/Data/Books/Download/ur/pdf/2006/159-1.pdf

Beewi k huqooq

http://www.islamimehfil.com/topic/1874-beewi-k-huqooq/

Shoher kay huqooq

http://www.islamimehfil.com/topic/1859-shoher-kay-huqooq/

Madani Muazkra

 Shouhar Ko Aurat Kay Liay Hukam.rm

Edited 4 جنوری 2018 by Kilk-e-Raza
Fixed links

[hunny]

Thanx kilk_e_raza main ye sb parhny or sunany ki puri koshish karun gi

[Sana Zafar]

In sub maslo k sath sath mera meri olad ka masla b hy, mery susral waly mera bacha cheenty mujh sy, dada dadi har waqt har apny pas rakhty, apny beech sulaty , mujhy bs feed k lye dyty , kiya mera bacha mujhy ni pehchany ga jab wo bara ho ga? 

Me kiya krun meri rehnumai kren wo abhi bs aik maah ka hy,