piari sister umme anwar raza aur sanaali aap nai bohat acha re kia hai magar main aik baat ki taraf tawajjah dilana chaoon gi kah jab koi aurat apni zindagi kai 20 ya 22 saal apnai maan baap kai ghar guzar kar kisi new ghar , new mahool aur new logon main ati hai to us ko wahan adjust honay main thora time lagta hai .. apnai shohar kai saath saath us kai ghar walon ki pasand na psand jannay main us ko thora waqt lagta hai wahan kai mahool main adjust hona wahan ka rahan sahan dhang apnana yah sab cheezain time maangti hain ... ho sakta hai yah 20 yaa 22 saal woh jo parents kai ghar guzaar kar aye hai wahan us pai ghar kai kaam waghira ki ziada zimmadari na ho .... ab zahri baat hai shaadi kai baad aurat pai zimmadaari aa jati hai shohar ki us kai ghar walon ki phir bachon ki ....... ab yahan pai susraal walon aur larki dono ko apnai apnai kirdaar khush asloobi sai nibhanay chaiyen ... susraal walon ko chaiye kah woh apni bahoo ko apnai ghar main adjust honay kay liye thora time dain , apnai ghar main mix ho janay k liye apni bahoo kai saath beti jaisa salook karain us ko jab mahsoos hoga kah mujhe yahan beti ki tarah hi piar aur ahmiat mill rahi hai to us ko susraal kai mahool main jald adjust honay main asani ho gi ... aur doosri taraf larki ko apni akal use kartay hoye jald sai jald susraal walon kai mizaj aur un kai mahool ko samjhna chaiye susraal walon main jagah banay k liye pahlay larki ko apnai aap ko us ghar ka hissa aur farad samjhna bohat zaroori hai apnai saas aur susar ko apnai maan aur baap ki jagah samjhna chaiye un ki waise hi khidmat karni chaiye jsaiy woh apnai parents ki karti thi un ko waise hi ahmiat daini chaiye jaisay woh apnai parenst ko daiti thi ... apni maan kai awaz dainay pai jahan woh ji kahti thi yahan saas ki awaz dainay pai us ko do baar ji boldaina chaiye .. jahan daikha saas kaam kar rahi hai kichten main wahan khud ja kar kaam karna chaiye .... isi tarah ki aur bhi kaye baatain hain jin ko apna kar aik larki susraal main apni jagah aur mukaam bohat jald bana sakti hai ...... ghar basany kai larki ho bohat akal aur hikmate amli sai kaam laina parta hai ... aur susraal walon ko bhi chaiye kah woh bahoo ko khuda ra apni beti ki jagah hi samjhain us kai saath apni beti jaisa hi salook karain us kai saath apni beti jaisi hi muhabbat karain jahan pai woh apni beti kai aram ka khial rakhtay hain wahan woh apni bahoo ko bhi bilawajah tang na karain jahan woh apni beti ki khushi k liye bhaag door kartay hain wahan apni bahoo ko bhi khush rakhin kah bahoo ko to beti sai ziada piar o muhabbat ki zaroorat hoti kionkah woh apnai maan baap ko chor kar un logon main apna ghar basany ati hai us ko bhi maan ki mamta ki zaroorat hoti hai
jo susral walay apni bahoo kai saath acha salook nahin kartay akhir woh yah kion nahin sochtay kah yah bhi kisi ki beti hai .. is kai maan baap pai kia guzray gi agar hum is kai saath acha salook nahin karain gay sab sai bari baat roze mahshar ALLAH ko kia jawab dain gay
